S.N. asked:


Ok why natural childbirth if you can have an easy mess-free c-section!!! why lay in a bed with your legs spread out for everybody to see your private parts…oh and don’t forget the aunt or grandmother recording everything on camera. Its like so gross. Doctors sticking their fingers and hands in your ****** and all the mess and pushing… why??? ewww a baby coming out like that?? why? now we have science and surgeries… why suffer and expose your self like that??? or at least kick everybody out of the room and just be the doctor, nurse, and the mom..thats it!!!! oh and maybe the dad too.. but is it right for everybody to see you ***** just because you look like a balloon and are ready to explode????

zzzz asked:


what does more damage to the vagina, c-section or natural childbirth?

happydawg asked:


My girlfriend had a baby and now she is all depressed because she says her ****** is big and open and doesnt look right. She had vaginal childbirth about 5 months ago.
I dont know what to tell her because my kids were born 20 yrs ago and by c section. Should her ****** be snug or is something wrong with her. What should she do? Is this normal? Will she ever return to normal?
Her baby was about 7 pounds I think. She said she had to have an episiotomy and maybe that has something to do with it.
Crazy enough, I am a nurse, but work in Onco and have no experience with the gynecology end of things.